See things from a new perspective

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Have you been watching the images received from Artemis II this weekend?

It may not be new to see the earth from space but it is not our usual viewpoint and the sight continues to fascinate us.

British astronaut Tim Peake says “It is impossible to look down on Earth from space and not be mesmerised the fragile beauty of our planet.” We can appreciated that might be true, but it may not be how we feel when we are in the morning rush hour.

The same happens in our relationships. We all live within a system, a network of people we interact with, but our day-to-day perspective is quite different. When things are painful or not working smoothly, it is easy for that to take up more of our focus, sometimes dominating our thinking altogether.
The role of a relationship counsellor will be listening to the details of your situation but also looking at them within a wider focus and how the whole system may be affected. We sometimes call this the ‘helicopter view’.
This is important because in many instances it takes a chain of adjustments to help changes stick. You may recognise this if you have tried to improve things and ended up in the same position again.

Relationship counselling can help you map a way forward that will bring a more effective outcome. We can bring a different, neutral perspective, share new skills you can take away with you, consider how the brain works and how to work with it, and decide together a plan that suits your aims.

Clients can attend alone or with others. In person, or via video call. Daytime or evening.

Contact us to find out more: info@SurreyCM.org.uk 01737 245212