Sex Therapy
You may be experiencing problems in your sexual relationship, from low energy and loss of sex drive, to premature ejaculation and pain during intercourse. These issues are common and can have a significant impact on your relationship. Don’t be embarrassed about it – we are here to help.
You can also meet with a sex therapist as an individual. The focus for individual sessions is set by you – whether that is to explore achieving a more satisfying sexual experience or to discover your own image and understanding of self in relation to sex and intimacy.
Sex Therapy
Support for Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
If you’re finding that your sexual behaviours—including the use of pornography—are creating distress or impacting your life, we’re here to help. Some refer to this experience as “sex addiction” or Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (CSBD).Whatever language feels right for you, we offer a space where you can explore your experience without fear of shame or judgement.
We don’t condemn sexual desire or the use of pornography. But we also recognise that when these behaviours start to feel out of control, uncomfortable, or in conflict with your values, it can be hard to know where to turn. You’re not alone—and meaningful change is possible.
Our psychosexual therapist has completed specialised training in this area and offers confidential, compassionate support tailored to your needs and goals. Whether you’re looking for greater understanding, behavioural change, or simply a place to talk, we’re ready to work with you.
Contact Us
Learn more or make an appointment:
- Reigate 01737 245212
- Epsom 01372 722976
What to expect
Once you’ve made an appointment with us, you’ll be seen by a sex therapist who will listen sensitively to your description of the problem and gather further information from you to ensure that any suggested treatment meets your needs.
If at this stage Sex Therapy is considered appropriate, you will start to see your sex therapist on a weekly 50-minute basis. All of the work you do in the therapy room is based on talking, but you will also be given ‘homework’ to do with your partner in the privacy of your own home.
Clients are often amazed at the progress they make and how well they get on with their therapist, once they are over the initial nerves around talking frankly about their sex life.
Sex Therapy Testimonial
“I think it’s part of being British that we live with major sexual problems and are simply too embarrassed to get any kind of help. The great thing with Relate sex therapists is that there is nothing you can say that will shock us – we know how complicated sexual problems can be and we know how difficult it is to open up to your partner about them.”
“The therapy was done at a good pace, gave us a safe opportunity to discuss anything, but most importantly, kept pushing us out of our comfort zone – this was essential for us to make progress and we could not have done this on our own.”
Our Core Services
Relationship Counselling
Family Counselling
Sex Therapy
As an individual or as a couple.
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Our Mediator is here to help.